tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5566864259419461961.post5317043136034602060..comments2024-03-21T06:49:37.765-05:00Comments on Orthodox, Gay and Married Jew: Growing up with neglect...Frum, Gay and Marriedhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12734786242945343071noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5566864259419461961.post-44196520547207324192012-08-18T22:09:38.392-05:002012-08-18T22:09:38.392-05:00He was 19 years ol and could have been charged wit...He was 19 years ol and could have been charged with abuse. I didn't say this in my initial post but he did it along with the junior counselor at the same time. <br /><br />If he asked me forgiveness I would agree with you but he hasn't. <br /><br />I don't judge him but it is hard to find forgiveness. He may still be doing it for all I know. Frum, Gay and Marriedhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12734786242945343071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5566864259419461961.post-38564366753041608382012-08-18T21:48:14.390-05:002012-08-18T21:48:14.390-05:00I feel your pain and emphasize with you. I would a...I feel your pain and emphasize with you. I would ask though why you don't cut your counselor some slack. Assuming he was a teenager himself,he was probably struggling with his own issues at the time withou knowing how to deal with them. Unless you know otherwise he probably outgrew or dealt with his issues. I don't mean this as criticsm but rather to point out that just as you suffered so may have he and perhaps you can find it in you to forgive him.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5566864259419461961.post-84877468010541500062011-08-13T23:13:39.929-05:002011-08-13T23:13:39.929-05:00I feel your pain. growing up I felt that the world...I feel your pain. growing up I felt that the world was against me and that i was a victim. <br />I think this did shape my sexuality and i too am sitting in my basement. <br />I not sure if this is helpful but i understand in a limited way the pain you feel. ....Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com